Here are some reasons why gossip is considered harmful to our Christian walk and witness:
1. It Violates the Command to Love Others:
Jesus taught that the greatest commandments are to love God and love others (Matthew 22:37-39). Gossip can harm relationships and undermine love by spreading hurtful, false, or divisive information.
2. It Can Destroy Trust:
Trust is central to healthy relationships, and gossip erodes that trust. In Ephesians 4:29, Paul urges believers to speak only what is helpful for building others up, and gossip can break down the trust people have in each other.
3. It Can Lead to Slander and False Witness:
In the Ten Commandments, God commands not to bear false witness (Exodus 20:16). Gossip often involves sharing information that isn’t fully accurate or may be exaggerated, leading to the spread of falsehoods and potentially ruining someone’s reputation.
4. It Hurts Others:
Proverbs 16:28 says that a “perverse person stirs up conflict, and a gossip separates close friends.” Even if it’s unintentional, gossip can damage relationships, create division, and cause emotional pain.
5. It Promotes Disharmony:
As Christians we are meant to pursue unity within the church and the body of believers (1 Corinthians 1:10, Ephesians 4:3). Gossip can create division and promote a spirit of negativity rather than harmony.
6. It Reflects a Heart Issue:
Jesus taught that what comes out of our mouths reflects what is in our hearts (Matthew 12:34). If someone gossips, it may indicate a deeper problem, such as a lack of self-control, unkindness, or even a judgmental attitude.
7. It Breeds Sin and Temptation:
Proverbs 20:19 warns that those who gossip reveal secrets and are not to be trusted. Being involved in gossip can tempt others to sin or encourage a culture of negativity and distrust.

Ultimately, we are called to use our words to build others up, promote peace, and reflect the love and truth of God. Instead of gossiping, we are encouraged to speak kindly, offer encouragement, and protect others’ reputations.

Erick Bouwmeester
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